Saturday, October 12, 2013

Mis-takes?

Figure 1: Focus in the positive outlook of life.
Mistakes are common in life, and most of the time, we let it pass and forget about it to only one day, repeat it again. No one is so perfect in this world that doesn't do any mistakes. Well, it is possible, if only you admit and realize your mistake. To do that, looks simple but application wise it is tough as a dough.

You will never realize a silly, unintended mistake unless someone pin-points it to you. It is really hard to actually tell some-one about their body odour or the volume intensity of their voice. The highlight of the mistake may vary and may ignite a spark of fire depending on the sender and receiver. 

Well, the sender might communicate it in a way, that may be calm yet not enough to catch our attention, or in an emotional way which can immediately catch our attention. And the receiver, has a choice of reaction too, depending on, if he accepts the message or not.

All in all, it takes courage and a lot of patience to accept and admit mistakes. It certainly shows our flaws and in most cases we have our pride and ego to brush off first before we can give a clear direction. Most of us tend to be over-defensive.

It takes more than brawn to accept and rectify mistakes, especially those carried over since small. Take time to realize, realization doesn't come immediately. If more than one people highlighted the same issue, I think it is worth the time to realize, analyze and admit the mistake.

A lot of small mistakes I have done in my life, anger management, life-style change, selfishness and lots of issues which makes my own body and other people around me, hates me for repeating the mistake every-day. I have to thank them, for without them, I wouldn't know it till I die.

As the saying by Bruce Lee goes, "mistakes are always forgive-able, if one has the courage to admit them". Life is great if we all understand each other and make amends for mistakes which hurts others. We aren't perfect beings but we can do our very best.  

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